From the Interim

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It takes a lot to maintain a Unitarian Universalist in the 21st century. Many of the practices we thought would always work, just don’t. Or at least not as well.

Part of our interim ministry is about naming some of those habits, but we don’t stop there. We look at what vital religious traditions and congregations (UU and beyond) are doing to further their mission to change lives, and protect the planet.

As with other elements of American society – medicine, education, government – research is crucial to religion in general, and congregational life in particular. Gone are the days when our UU leaders (ordained and not) have to invent every wheel. Or lead from sheer inertia.

And so I spend a few hours each month studying up on how vital faith communities get and stay vital. What are they letting go of, what are they doing instead? And how can I give QUUF the best ministry for now and beyond?

As we gear up for our last program year together (recall my ministry with QUUF will end on July 1, 2027) let me share a few tidbits that might come in handy, especially for your current and future leaders:

  • Never underestimate the impact of generational differences on congregational life. We can be under one roof, and still be miles away about what we need, want and value most;
  • Expect discomfort. If it feels like the ground underneath is always shaking, we’re probably right;
  • Always make room for the stranger in our midst. See them with kind eyes because they’ve come to us for a reason. Probably several;
  • Practice simplicity as a spiritual discipline. Figure out the bare basics, and stick with them. Unnecessary complexity is a hallmark of unexamined Whiteness;
  • We’re all “benchwarmers”. Someone will sooner or later will take our places, and ask what we can do to make their work productive and enjoyable;
  • Remember we live in an era of constant trauma, personal, national and worldwide. We carry that suffering with us whenever we go, including our sanctuaries and meeting rooms.

So here’s a shout-out to every leader who’s reading this week’s blog. It takes a lot to do what you do. But these practices are good medicine for all of us.

Blessings,
Don